Are you a shopaholic?



Are you a shopaholic?


1. Shopaholics found their compulsion to spend by creating false
identities to obtain more creditcards. They often hide bank statements from
their spouses and try in any way possible to conceal their abuse. In some
extreme cases shopaholics has even turned prostituted in order to finance their
spending.

2. The group Walletwatch was made by Lawrence Michaels who is a Shopaholic. He
spends thou-sands of pounds on albums he don´t like and clothes which don´t fit
him. The reason why he started the group was because he wanted to help other
people who have the same tendencies as himself. Walletwatch was started because
shopaholics need to be under some kind of surveillance.

3. Richard Elliot wanted to proof that Britain was les consumption-minded
than the US. But what he found out was quite different. He found many examples
of consumption-crazy Britons who had ran up huge bills and driven their family
into oppressive debt. Another thing he found out was that their shopping was
used as a therapy to give their mood a lift. They got their support from shop
assis-tants. This may be one way of buying social support.

Shopaholics

Shopaholics is becoming a more and more frequently known disease. It is not only
found in the US, but all over the world including Denmark. In Britain a nation
wide survey revealed that addicts will stop at nothing to found their desire to
spend money. They will do anything from stealing to prosti-tution. One out of
20 adults is found to be obsessed by spending. But why do people become sho-
paholics? I think when you are being a shopaholic you often don´t realise it or
won´t admit it. At one time or another though will you find out that you spend
too much money on things you don´t even need. Most people love spending money
this is one cause of shopaholism, another could be that shopping is used as
therapy to better ones mood and confidence. Richards Elliots study of 63
shopaholics show that shopaholics are more likely to suffer from a lack of self-
esteem or confidence. They use shopping as a form of social support, which they
get from the shop-assistants. Afterwards they feel guilty of cause, risking both
life and marriage, but this normally doesn’t stop them. I think we all have an
urged to go crazy and start throwing money around. There is a shopaholic in
every on of us, who haven´t tried buying thinks they dont really need. I see
shopaholics as people who have trouble controlling themselves. It is the same
way with alcoholics. Most people like a beer once in a while but alcoholics over
do it. They have problems that I would determine to be self-control. I feel
sorry for shopaholics and therefore I think it is a great idea with these self-
help groups. These groups may the only way out of shopaholism.

Walletwatch 61 Whitehouse Way Souhgate London N14 7LX

Mr. Richard Elliott The Management School Lancaster University Lancaster LA
4YX 4. July 1994

Dear Mr. Elliott

We have read the article concerning shopaholics in the Sunday Express, and we
have become aware of Your research on this subject.

Therefore our self-help group would like too invite you to London to give a
lecture in this illness.

We are interested in knowing more about the results you have discovered during
your research, and we would also ask you to focus on the cause of this so-called
shopping mania.

We are 20 shopaholics in the group. We meet 1 or 2 a week to talk about our
abuse of consumption and discuss in which way we can help each other best. We
all need to bolster our self-esteem up, and that is why we have used shopping as
a kind of therapy.

The group represents different sort of work and all social classes: We have bank
managers, techni-cians, and house wifes and people from both the middle- and
working classes. But despite the dif-ferences we all agree about one thing: We
want to get out of our abuse!

We hope that you can accept our invitation, and if you can, then please call us
on phone no. 081-361 2411, so that we can arrange a time for your lecture.

Yours Sincerely

Lawrence Michaels